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For Newlyweds : 10 Tips to Get Along with Your Brother/Sister in-laws

>> Sep 10, 2009

Well, the topic is still around in-laws; but this post is special for newlyweds. Entering the new family, of course, you hope that you’ll be accepted by the whole family members. It will be more enjoyable if you can get along with your brother/sister in-laws. If you don’t know what you should do, don’t worry… I’ll mention here ten tips to get along with your in-laws that you should comprehend first. Happy reading!
  1. As a newcomer in your spouse’s big family, you should be more active in adapting yourself with all family members.

  2. There is time when you should be passive and there is time when you should be assertive.

  3. Don’t hurry in trying to be a close friend to your in-law. First, you should seek to know more; between your in laws- who are cooperative and who are ‘difficult’. Find ways to melt the difficult one’s heart.

  4. Openness and communication is crucial. Don’t keep problems; avoid talking about it secretly or talking it at someone’s back.

  5. When you are asked to give an advice, it’s wiser if you mention the fact and the consequences in every choice and let your in-law making the decision by herself/himself.

  6. If your in-law want to share his/her problem with you; be a good listener and encourage your in-law with empathy words.

  7. Avoid conversation topics that disfiguring other family members.

  8. Do fun activities together to increase the closeness between in-laws; such as shopping, lunch and watching movie together.

  9. You should behave decently and appropriately. Keep the good relationship with your mother and father in-law but don’t overreact; because it can attract your in-law’s jealousy.

  10. If you’ve done your best, but you still aren’t accepted by your in-laws; well, it’s time for you to make a safe distance. It will be better that you use the energy to focus on building a harmonic family with your husband.

10 komentar:

JT September 11, 2009 at 2:02 AM  

ceu, good tips and helpfully. really

pelangi anak September 11, 2009 at 8:14 AM  

Bagus sekali, dan saya bisa belajar listening English very well hehhehhheh!
Thank a lot and have a great day...
Juga salam kenal!

pelangi anak September 11, 2009 at 10:57 AM  

Thanks Mbak, for your kind.
You have followed my blog, hope we can share advantageous things each other...
Happy blogging!

mommymayonnaise September 11, 2009 at 11:31 AM  

We’ve been through this before, sis. Hahaha. And I know exactly about this feeling also. Again, I don’t have any problem at all with this one. I only have two sisters in law. And both of them are very friendly and welcome. Of course I always try to avoid any conversation about private issue. But I think they’re all open minded enough to ask tell me about their problem so far. We discuss a lot. But I agree with you, that we must keep a safe and right distance from our in laws in order to keep a healthy relation ship with them.

rinto September 11, 2009 at 2:41 PM  

I've yet married...but your post is very useful for me and other people. soon or later. Sorry my english was so bad...he...he...

narti September 11, 2009 at 4:35 PM  

makasih artikelnya mba, sangat bermanfaat.

kakara September 11, 2009 at 6:40 PM  

Adaptasi adalah masa-masa sulit.. dengan tips ini smoga siapa saja lebih mudah melewatinya.. :)

blog buat bloggers September 12, 2009 at 4:21 AM  

material is a very good article, thank you've visited friends
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madz September 12, 2009 at 10:04 AM  

Very well said tips. I will surely be taking note of these.

UNDERFLOOR HEATING September 21, 2009 at 2:22 PM  

Hey This is very important post for me because i am also new married. I need such tips.

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