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My Husband as a Son

>> Jun 2, 2010

This time I’ll write about my hubby a little deeper. My hubby, Rofi, is the sixth of seven siblings. He has three sisters and three elder brothers. Unhappily, his childhood isn’t a wonderful one. It’s different with me, I’ve wonderful childhood!

It can be said that he was lack of her mother’s care. It didn’t mean that she didn’t care about her son, but for years (about five years), she had to take care of her sister (my hubby’s aunt) who had seriously ill in another town. So, my hubby, was often left by mother in-law. In a month, she’s only at home for three or four days. It happened when my hubby’s age is between eight until thirteen years old. And then her mother also got sick. She died when my hubby is fifteen years old.

My father in-law’s name is Kaseh. He’s 82 years now. My hubby said that his father applied strict parenting style. He’s always got punishment every time he made a mistake. Though as a child, he’s rather scare to his father; their relationship is close enough. My father in-law is a kind of father who likes to give lots of advice to his children, included to my hubby.

Until now, my father in-law prefers to live in his own house. Only one of his children who lives in the same town, not far away from my father in-law’s house. The other brother and sister in-laws are living in another town, Jakarta. My father in-law is still brave to leave alone; he often goes to Jakarta, visiting his children. It’s amazing for an old guy!

Well, as a son, I guess my hubby can get along well with his father. Every time he meets my hubby, he always asks my hubby to massage him.

As a father? He’s not a father yet; but I think he’ll be a good one. He’s close with all nephews and nieces, from both sides. He’s a favorite uncle. He likes to play with them, makes some food for them, and tells funny jokes to make them laugh.
It’s my story about mu hubby, visit CC to know other stories.

20 komentar:

Miss Rinda June 2, 2010 at 8:57 PM  

wah biarpun udah berumur tapi masih diberi kesehatan sm Allah,,,^_^

muup br mampir y bunda,,,^^

eNeS June 3, 2010 at 3:28 AM  

Hebat mertua mbak, masih kuat jalan-jalan.

Maaf mbak baru mampir nih:
1) Ngrombak Sastra Culun
2) Pas malem speedy error

msafru June 3, 2010 at 10:46 AM  

Kesehatan adalah salah satu nikmat dari ALLAH yang tak ternilai

Vicky Laurentina June 3, 2010 at 11:25 AM  

I just wonder about a thing, Mbak Lina. If your husband declines to massage your father in law, will he still get punished? :-D

Miss Rinda June 3, 2010 at 9:53 PM  

wah aq jd pgn liat sungai disana bun,,pst suasananya jg asri bgt y...^___^

ia nie gtw bun,aq baca artikelnya jg aneh tp nyata ~_~

wah bunda sqt apa??tp udah smbuh kan skrg??mudh2an trs shat ksananya y bun ^_^

met maleump aja ia ^__^

Willyo Alsyah P. Isman June 4, 2010 at 1:43 AM  

mengunjungi sahabat di dingin nya malam....

Yohanes June 4, 2010 at 6:51 AM  

And you must be older than ur husband, i guess......

Or...... is it look likes an oediphus complex ?

Aby Umy June 4, 2010 at 7:20 AM  

selamat pagi cikgu
mampir bentar ya sambil baca...

NENSA MOON June 4, 2010 at 10:55 AM  

Lina, aku suka sama kumisnya bapak mertuamu...hehe... it seemed he is really a brave old man...
Thx for sharing fren!!

NENSA MOON June 4, 2010 at 10:56 AM  
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NENSA MOON June 4, 2010 at 10:59 AM  

hey... sorry for double post, i got error on my connection,,,

Cheqna June 4, 2010 at 1:44 PM  

May ur father-in-law's remaining years be a happy one.

Aby Umy June 4, 2010 at 9:06 PM  

mampir lagi ni kawan
tak ape kan law saye sering2 mampir ke sini?

By MelCole of PA June 4, 2010 at 11:51 PM  

I remember my Papa who always ask massage. He likes to be massaged. That creates good bonding. I'm sad to hear about his mother, truly he needs tlc. I bet he's a happy man coz he has you. God bless him and your family :)

Bunglon Blog June 5, 2010 at 12:24 AM  

hmmm udah tua tapi masih kelihatan sehat dan bugar ya mbak, vigur seorang kakel banget
Sukses Slalu!

Edwin's Personal Blog June 5, 2010 at 7:02 AM  

We do appreciate your hubby being kind to all relatives and big family. Happy to have such a spouse..

Blog Ekspor Impor June 5, 2010 at 7:03 AM  

Marriage needs attachment and affection. You and your hubby have got it all Mb Lina :)

Mommy Liz June 7, 2010 at 8:52 PM  

Your hubby might not be close to his dad, but I know that he does love his father and he cares for him a lot. And I believe too that he will become a great dad someday, with your guidance and love, you will both be wonderful parents.

I am sorry for late comment, I didn't realize that I haven't gotten to read your entry. Have a great day Lina.

ACmomCee June 9, 2010 at 12:38 AM  

weew... it must have been a sad childhood for you hubby, but because of the environment he grew up with, I'm sure this will hone him to be a better dad in the future...

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