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Couple’s Corner : When Simple Sorry is not Enough

>> Aug 25, 2010



Sorry Seems To Be the Hardest Word

Lyrics: Bernie Taupin

Piano and vocals: Elton John


What have I got to do to make you love me

What have I got to do to make you care

What do I do when lightning strikes me

And I wake to find that you're not there
What do I do to make you want me

What have I got to do to be heard

What do I say when it's all over

And sorry seems to be the hardest word
It's sad, so sad

It's a sad, sad situation

And it's getting more and more absurd

It's sad, so sad

Why can't we talk it over

Oh it seems to me

That sorry seems to be the hardest word

What do I do to make you love me

What have I got to do to be heard

What do I do when lightning strikes me

What have I got to do

What have I got to do

When sorry seems to be the hardest word


Why I sometimes feel hard to say “I’m sorry”, though I know that I’ve done mistakes? Sometimes, my pride- makes me reluctant to say it. Or I’m still in deep angry; and it needs times for me to cool down my emotion. After I’m feeling better with my emotion, I’m usually nearing my hubby and say that five words.

But sometimes, it isn’t hard at all. I can say it easily. I can say “I’m sorry” straightly after I realize that I’ve made a mistake. Sigh, I still have to learn to control my emotions!

As a married couple, saying “I’m Sorry” is very important. But of course; it should be a meaningful one and state it with sincerity. Saying ‘sorry’ but not intending to improve our actions will cause a lack of trust. Saying “I’m sorry” and admitting that we did something wrong is the first step to self-improvement. It can also break the ice and the way to reconcile is wide open.

Unfortunately, in this case, my hubby has the similar behavior. Sometimes, when he realizes that his mistake has made me angry, he straightly says how sorry he is and usually he does funny acts to make me laugh. But sometimes, he can be so stubborn and it needs long time for him to say it! There’s no doubt, we still have to learn to fix this.

9 komentar:

Dhemz August 25, 2010 at 11:39 PM  

hhahaha....I can see myself in you Lina...we both have similarities....and our husbands too....lol! thanks for sharing...great to be here!

Cheqna August 26, 2010 at 12:00 AM  

Somehow I love that song. :-)

sometimes because of our ego, its very difficult to say sorry to other people, even though we know that we are in the wrong..

Laikka August 26, 2010 at 5:27 AM  

halu dear...weee nandito na naman ako:) ahehehh! trying to get back:) good day!

Mommy Liz August 26, 2010 at 9:55 AM  

It's indeed hard to say sorry sometimes, but if it's our fault, we have to own up to what ever we did. We are responsible on our own actions. Hubby and Wifey need to learn how to apologize to each other for a better and long lasting relationship, but the sorry needs to be meant to not do it again..

Bintang August 26, 2010 at 6:05 PM  

as long as that's my mistake..i love to say sorry..

Aby August 27, 2010 at 1:15 AM  

aku baru tau ni mbak lagu ini
melo ya?

Family law August 27, 2010 at 5:27 AM  

'sorry' and 'thank you' are important words that can influence a relationship success or not.

eden August 30, 2010 at 7:13 PM  

I find it hard to say Sorry sometimes. It just takes time for me to say it.

timeshare March 18, 2011 at 10:22 PM  

Sorry is hard to say, but sometime, a sorry will make up an argument. I will say sorry whenever i do something wrong.

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