Relationship Repair: How Driving Fast may Benefit Your Relationship
>> Oct 6, 2012
Relationships are tough. But when you are placed in
a challenging situation, such as driving a tank in a war zone (filled with
flying paintballs) you have the chance to work out your frustrations and
rekindle the spark with your loved one in a new and unique way. This post will
talk about how driving can help your
relationship blossom again.
A relationship can quite logically be compared to
the act of driving. You have to be able to assess the road conditions, and
proceed with caution when an explosive situation lurks ahead. You also have to
be able to discern when it's safe to accelerate and shift into another gear.
Relationships can truly be frustrating, and it requires well developed skills
and techniques to navigate through the various situations that arise at varying
times. The faster you are able to navigate or make a decision regarding what to
do in each situation, the better the relationship will fare.
Speed driving is very beneficial as it helps to
develop your accuracy, finesse, and a cool, calm spirit even in the midst of
trouble. These are priceless qualities in any relationship. When the roads
ahead are clear and open, you can put your foot on the accelerator and enjoy the
ride. Even then, you have to be mindful and maintain a speed that will cater to
your safety as well as to that of others. Remember that somewhere along the
road you will encounter traffic, and you would do well not to plow into it.
If the road ahead is wet and slippery, you will
need to proceed with caution. Any good speed driver understands that there are
times when speeding is just not appropriate. Similarly, any good partner will
understand when the conditions in the relationship require a reduction in speed
and a slow, careful maneuver to make it through. At this point, your partner
will determine how fast you will proceed. Even though you are the driver behind
the wheel, you must respect the other party. Picture yourself in a car race
making it around a bend, all the cars cannot go around at the same time, the
steepness in the arc of the bend and the number of cars vying to go around the
bend will cause you to slow down and wait for the perfect opportunity to surge
ahead.
As you seek to create, or take advantage of any
little opening that may present itself, you are quite aware that one wrong
move, and coming off the bend at the wrong time could spell devastation for you
and your fellow drivers. You may end up plowing into someone and trigger a
multiple collision that takes out several cars.
As a speed driver, even in situations where
everything seems to be moving at a rapid pace, you will be able to quickly
assess a situation and make some effective decisions. You may be a fast driver,
but you are aware that anything can present a challenge and change the
conditions of the road surface you are on. This knowledge makes you aware that
you are not invincible and cannot plow your way through situations. A fast
driver is focused on getting from point A to point B, and will negotiate road
conditions with accuracy, finesse, and a cool, calm spirit. If you have not yet
developed the skill of fast driving, there are facilities that offer driving
experience days where you can live your dream of learning and practicing some
fast driving.
Guest post contributed by Neil Hilden on behalf of Wish.co.uk. Neil is a freelance writer and automotive
enthusiast. He enjoys sharing his insights on various auto blogs.
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