A Happy Family

Teaching Children to Fast

>> Aug 19, 2011

Aww, it’s already second week of this fasting month. I’m rather late to post this article. Parents, of course, it is highly recommended to train children to fast. Indeed, there is no reference at what age a child can fast because the body condition of each child is different.

How to determine the ability of fasting in children? Actually it's easy; a child who’s feeling weak will surely complain hungry. Don’t wait until it brings cold sweat, moreover throwing up. It could be one sign of decreased blood sugar levels or the dehydration because children generally stay play actively and spend a lot of sweat.

Immediately break his fast. Don’t forget to praise his efforts. However, don’t let your child ‘take revenge’ against his hunger by eating large meals at once. It will only make his digestive system reacts in shock and provoke.

Give the opening drink that can recover energy, along with snacks. After that, he can eat a main meal with not excessive portion.

Instead of saying, "Fasting means not eating all day," better to say, "Fasting is simply speed up breakfast and delay lunch." Thus, your child won’t feel heavy to do it. Furthermore, train your child’s power by fasting gradually.

At the beginning of the exercise, toddlers who eat breakfast at around 7:00, they can try fasting until 09:00 or 10:00. After eating, the fasting can continue again until noon and then open for the second time (at 15:00, for example), then carry on until dusk. In following years, fasting can be done until around 12:00 am, and so on according to your child's ability.

For school-age children who are relatively more powerful, notice their biological clock. Usually until around 12:00, children can still survive, but after the middle of the day, let’s say at 14:00, his stomach starts growling. If he’s not strong, offer the child to break the fast. If he still looks fresh, ask him to do enjoyable things to ignore hunger and thirst like reading stories, watching favorite movies, and more.

There should also be understood, at the beginning of fasting (the first 1-3 days) is the times for adjusting body to the "empty" stomach. Don’t worry if your child reduce their activity and take more sleep for feeling lacking energy. Anticipate with inviting him doing activities that don’t drain energy but is able to make he feels fun.

If your child has to school in the morning, take him to bed early at night so that he stays fit although he must get up very early for meal. During the day, remind your child to sleep with common portions only, as too much sleep can actually make it increasingly weak.

After the sahur meal, don’t let your child move excessively (morning walk in long distances or strenuous exercise) because he would quickly run out of energy and ultimately weak and thirsty. Better, take it back to sleep, or fill it with activities that don’t spend too much energy. Active play can be done before sunset and generally not more than one hour.

May God have mercy on us all by the virtuous children and following generations.
/Tabloid-nakita/
/image:areweprepared.ca/

Great Online Resource of Financial Information

Do you need a safe place to save your money? Bank Savings Accounts could become your good option. It’s not only offering a secure place to maintain your money, bank saving accounts also develop your money. If you place your money in a savings account, your money will receive interest. Compared with checking accounts, saving accounts compensate you more.

To get a good deal of a savings account, you should search the best savings account that offers you with safety, competitive rate and easiness. Nowadays, the best deals are offered at online banks. So, why don’t you open savings account online?

If you begin from scratch, searching a bank that offers the most suitable deals for you might be so tiring. You may face difficulties unless you obtain first the reliable online banking guide at Banktime.com, a leading online source for financial information that will direct and educate you with comprehensive information on CD rates, credit cards, mortgage loans, home equity loans, auto loans and insurance products.

When it comes to find the best savings account, this online banking guide has created a step by step guide that will help you much. Ensure that you focus on selecting a bank that can assist you in achieving your financial aims. At the bank website, navigate their system to see the offering features. If the features ensemble your needs, the next step is activating your account. There’s no doubt, applying online banking guide is truly a great help!

Bambu Runcing Monument and Independence Day

>> Aug 17, 2011

Today, August 17, 2011, Indonesian people celebrate 66th Independence Day. Indonesia is a truly beautiful country in nature that we should be proud of. I realize that Indonesia is still far from prosperity; poverty still becomes our main enemy. Though there are also other problems blocking our way to prosperity and glory; we must keep struggling and moving forward! Happy Independence Day!

For Watery Wednesday, I share here the Monument of Bambu Runcing in Surabaya, the Heroes City (East Java Province, Indonesia). This monument built to commemorate the martially fight spirit of Surabaya people against the colonialist. In that time, they fought against the Dutch colonialist by only using tapered bamboos.

Bambu Runcing Monument consisted of 5 different-height pillars; formed to look like sharp-pointed bamboos. I captured it from inside a taxi, I can’t get the best angle.

Great Resource of Weddings Prepare Info

Congratulations ladies, your upcoming wedding will be held in just a few following months! If you feel stress already, no one will blame you. Every one realize that preparing a wedding ceremony and reception can become a daunting and tiring thing, especially if you still don’t know exactly whatever things that you should do. Since it will be the most important day in your life, you crave to have a special and memorable one for you, your family and guests.

A successful and memorable wedding needs appropriate wedding plan. To ease all hassle and hectic during preparing your wedding, you need guidance from a reliable website that offers you with comprehensive Weddings Prepare Advisory and Weddings Prepare Info.

At WeddingsPrepare.com, you’ll find information on many details which relate with wedding preparation. You’ll know whatever items that you should consider and include on your to-do list; such as wedding themes, decorations, invitations, gowns, clothes, rings, flowers, cakes, bands, bouquets, photography, and many other more.

Reading articles and tips at WeddingsPrepare.com will give you ideas and inspiration in personalizing your wedding ceremony and reception. Since saving money is becoming your most concern nowadays, you need to know how to prepare a wedding on a limited budget. Don’t worry, you’ll find many helpful tips that you can apply to minimize your expenses. By using WeddingsPrepare.com as your reliable resource, preparing a wedding isn’t a daunting job anymore!

5 Tips for Dealing with Temper Tantrums

If you have a child who is between the ages of one and four, chances are that you have had to deal with what is commonly termed a temper tantrum. Of course, no parent wants to see their child turn into a little monster very suddenly, and in some cases, tantrums can become worse and more violent if they are not addressed properly. Here are a few things to consider for keeping temper tantrums at bay.

image:pixabay.com/en/baby-child-girl-pouting-215867

1. Understand that temper tantrums are normal.
Many parents, especially first-time mothers and fathers, may be extremely alarmed at their children's outbreaks. The most important thing to remember when dealing with temper tantrums is that they will inevitably happen. Taking things in stride when your child throws a tantrum is the best first step in dealing with them.

2. Don't give in to your child's demands during the temper tantrum.
Many parents, in utter exasperation, will give their children what they are demanding so that the temper tantrum will stop immediately. However, the problem with this approach is that it will inadvertently serve to reinforce their behavior. Children will quickly realize that in order to get what they want, they should throw a tantrum, and they won't stop it until they get what they are after. As such, never offer your child his demands during a temper tantrum.

3. Suggest a different location and activity during a tantrum.
Sometime children can be distracted from their tantrum such that they forget what bothered them in the first place. So, one good "plan of attack" is to calmly approach the child and suggest going to a different room to do a completely different activity from the one that she is engaged in.

4. Reward positive behavior. One way to avoid temper tantrums altogether is to be sure to praise your child when she behaves well. This way, the child will know that if she does approach situations nicely and politely, she will get what she wants, while if she throws a fit, she simply won't get what she is after.

5. If your child is prone to tantrums keep scissors and other dangerous objects out of reach. Some children's temper tantrums are more violent than others, and the last thing that you want to happen is for you or your child to get hurt. As such, if you know when and where tantrums usually occur, control the environment by keeping dangerous objects out of reach.

For more information on temper tantrums, the different types, and their causes, check out this National Association for School Psychologists article.

Author Bio:
This is a guest post by Nadia Jones who blogs at online college about education, college, student, teacher, money saving, movie related topics. You can reach her at nadia.jones5 @ gmail.com.