CC: Hardest Days of Our Marriage

Maintaining a marriage isn’t an easy job. It needs strong commitment from both sides to keep the marriage forever. I believe that every marriage has its own obstacles. It becomes a kind of test for the married couple; can they face and solve the test properly? Or the obstacles become the cause of their broken marriage…

Our marriage in early years was a hard time for us. I really want to share our hardest days here completely; but my hubby said that I should only mention it in general. Ok, I can understand…

I supported my hubby’s business in another town; but we had to face the business failure and got bankrupt. Finance became our major problem at that time. It’s very hard to exit from the trouble; but at least, we can survive until now.

Actually, my hubby hasn’t yet had a new business that running well. He has tried to start several different businesses; but there wasn’t yet that came with the good result. Now his activity is helping his brother to run a small new restaurant. We don’t have much money, and we live in a modest life style. But it’s not a big problem, since we have strong love and commitment to keep our marriage. Of course, we have hopes to live in a better condition.

If I have my own child one day, I really want to give him/her the best education. And it means: we need to have special budget in education. We just do our best; only God knows our future!

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Ranjeng Lake

The lake is located in my husband’s home town (Bumiayu, Central Java, Indonesia) city. From the center of the city, it takes about thirty minutes through the uphill and windy roads to arrive at Ranjeng Lake. The lake is laid under the Slamet Mountain and a part of 48, 5 hectares preserved forest.

Ranjeng Lake is different from other lakes. Thousands catfish live in this lake. Several months ago, you can see the fish in a very close distance or even touch them! The lake’s depth is about three meters but there is a narrow and shallow spot (about ten meters square area) by the edge of the lake that the crowd of catfish are used to gather. Unfortunately, according to the Lake Keeper statement; it has already been nine months that the catfish can't be seen anymore. On my last visit several days ago; I only see some goldfish.

In other water recreation objects, you are able to swim, catch fish, ride a boat around the lake and do other things you want to do. But on the Ranjeng Lake, there is no one dares to do such activities like that. Local people still believe that the lake and also the fish are very sacred. The good point is; this local faith keeps Ranjeng Lake as a natural beauty. The water is so pure and clean from any pollution.

When I was nearing the lake to see goldfish, actually I walked on the water surface. The thick grasses protected me from falling down into the lake. Watch out with your step; choose the grass spots that are strong enough to walk on. It feels like walking on a hanging bridge; but this time, your feet are wet.

Watery Wednesday

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Sheep and Carriages

Actually, it’s my first time seeing sheep that used to pull little carriages. I saw these interesting animals at Raflesia Garden in Ciamis, West Java, Indonesia. Children love it! They ride the carriage and then wandering around the garden. The carriage owner guides and walks in front of the carriage.

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At Grandfather’s House

Dear friends, right now I’m still at my FIL’s house; that’s why I haven’t yet replied your friendly visit. Thanks for all of you who have came to visit me here!

My grandfather’s house is our first destination in this Eid ul-Fitr vacation. We (I and my husband) spent one night there, dropped my father, and the next day we continued the trip to my FIL’s house.

My grandfather’s house is located in small city Ciamis, West Java, Indonesia. My grandfather and grandmother has passed away long time ago; fortunately, my two aunties can stay there to look after it. It’s an old house; but still looks beautiful. The house has very large yard. There are small fish ponds on the some spots of the yard; I share two of them here. On every visit, I always enjoy walking around its large yard.

If the house were near our home; definitely I’ll visit here often. As the traffic jam almost along the road; it took 12 hours to reach this house. Sigh.
An entry for Watery Wednesday.

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Happy Eid ul-Fitr

Eid ul-Fitr is the festival that marks the end of the month of Ramadan. Fitr means to break and it therefore marks the breaking of the fasting period and of all evil habits. Happiness is observed at attaining spiritual uplift after a month of fasting.

To all my friends who celebrate:

May Allah flood
your life with happiness on this occasion,
your heart with love,
your soul with spiritual,
your mind with wisdom,
wishing you a blessed and very Happy Eid ul-Fitr.

Dear friends, now I’m packing and tomorrow I’ll be on my way to my great grandfather and FIL’s home. I’ll go mudik! Mudik is a tradition for Indonesian people; to gather with all family members and relatives in their hometown during the Eid ul-Fitr celebration.

I’ll still bring my laptop (hehehe); but I can’t promise that I can drop by, reply your friendship visit and leave comments in your posts for several days ahead. So, see you later!

Image source: muslimmedianetwork.com;imserba.com

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