My Husband as a Son

This time I’ll write about my hubby a little deeper. My hubby, Rofi, is the sixth of seven siblings. He has three sisters and three elder brothers. Unhappily, his childhood isn’t a wonderful one. It’s different with me, I’ve wonderful childhood!

It can be said that he was lack of her mother’s care. It didn’t mean that she didn’t care about her son, but for years (about five years), she had to take care of her sister (my hubby’s aunt) who had seriously ill in another town. So, my hubby, was often left by mother in-law. In a month, she’s only at home for three or four days. It happened when my hubby’s age is between eight until thirteen years old. And then her mother also got sick. She died when my hubby is fifteen years old.

My father in-law’s name is Kaseh. He’s 82 years now. My hubby said that his father applied strict parenting style. He’s always got punishment every time he made a mistake. Though as a child, he’s rather scare to his father; their relationship is close enough. My father in-law is a kind of father who likes to give lots of advice to his children, included to my hubby.

Until now, my father in-law prefers to live in his own house. Only one of his children who lives in the same town, not far away from my father in-law’s house. The other brother and sister in-laws are living in another town, Jakarta. My father in-law is still brave to leave alone; he often goes to Jakarta, visiting his children. It’s amazing for an old guy!

Well, as a son, I guess my hubby can get along well with his father. Every time he meets my hubby, he always asks my hubby to massage him.

As a father? He’s not a father yet; but I think he’ll be a good one. He’s close with all nephews and nieces, from both sides. He’s a favorite uncle. He likes to play with them, makes some food for them, and tells funny jokes to make them laugh.
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