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We Don’t Marry Perfect Persons!

>> Jul 7, 2010

I think you, married couples have realized that your partner isn’t a perfect one; as there’s no perfect person. NOBODY’S PERFECT, right? Accept your partner’s imperfection will make your marriage happier. Why?

Remember this: too much expectation can annoy your relationship. If your mind is full of thinking on your expectations about how is your partner should be; you’ll often feel disappointed.

If you have expectations, don’t hide it in your mind; say it to your partner. But don’t force him to change immediately. It needs process and many times to change one’s habits and personalities. Moreover, you should be ready if in fact, your partner is hard to change or can’t change at all!

You won’t sweat small stuff again. Don’t think small problem as a bigger problem. In our beginning of marriage, I still often sweat small stuffs. I almost grumble and complain every day. For example, my husband has a bad habit: after having a bath, he always put wet towel on the bed. At that time, this bad habit made me angry; but it doesn’t make me angry anymore. Why should I be angry? Just take the wet towel from the bed and hang it outside. You don’t need to be angry, right?

Since it’s hard to change your partner, it’s important for every single person to choose a future husband/wife carefully. Choose someone that love you, respect you, and can accept you completely.

10 komentar:

Pawewet July 7, 2010 at 1:12 AM  

I'm lucky its #1 comment....

I lv this statement...Choose someone that love you, respect you, and can accept you completely.

that right i must choose someone that love me,..someone who respect and accept me completely..hmm nice posting...

Vicky Laurentina July 7, 2010 at 3:29 AM  

Perhaps you need to remind him THOUSAND times not to put the wet towel on the bed. :-D Has it worked out?

Dr. E July 7, 2010 at 4:44 AM  

Agreed...I have always heard that you have to love the worst of someone. That way you can appreciate all the best. Picking your battles will increase the likelihood that he will comply on the big things...keep up the good work!


MisterXWebz July 7, 2010 at 7:14 AM  

Our partner's imperfections will be perfect when we can accept and improve through a more awards.
Success ...

With Smile

muzzy musthofa July 7, 2010 at 1:20 PM  

I strongly agree mbak Lina. because there are no perfect human being but only a prophet mbak

MinnieRunner July 7, 2010 at 1:42 PM  

I already made my choice. And I hope to spend the rest of my life with him soon.

You are definitely right. We should not be angry with those simple stuffs.

CaptainRunner July 7, 2010 at 3:44 PM  

Yes, nobody's perfect. We have to deal with it even with the person we chose to marry. After all, you marry him including such imperfection. You need not hope that he'll change after exchanging vows.

geeks2las July 7, 2010 at 4:35 PM  

Good Insight! I agree with you...Have a nice day.

wibowo July 7, 2010 at 10:28 PM  

we really can not change our spouse. since before the beginning of our marriage was ready with all of any risk. we do is, cover the shortage and provide our partners the best of our strengths as a couple ^ _ ^

happy blogging ya mbak. salam kenal.

tiwi August 28, 2010 at 7:55 AM  

absolutely right there is no perfect human. marriage is a good time for us to complement each other, at least trying to be better. Halo mbk lina....p kabar?..salam dr surabaya.tq..

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