CC : Our Favorite Places

Dullness is a real marriage-buster. So, it’s still important for us, married couples, to go out once in a while and spend times together. Especially now I don’t meet my hubby everyday. Every time he’s at home, he always asks me going out, at least once in two weeks. We love to eat, when we’re going out, most of the times are going to eating places.

For Indonesian food, we often visit Ayam Geprek Restaurant, which located near with our home. All food’s taste are great, especially ayam geprek -its traditional fried chicken- is so tender and tasty. Yummy… Moreover, the prices are so affordable! Sometimes we have to wait for a while if the restaurant is too full…

Hoka Hoka Bento is our choice if we’re interested in Japanese food. Our favorite food is Beef/Chicken Yakiniku. I think Hoka Hoka Bento is a cozy place; I like its taste and price.

Waroeng Steak and Shake is the place we visit for eating affordable but still yummy steak. We have our favorite spot there, at its open area. We prefer to visit there at night. It’s so nice to have steak for dinner in romantic atmosphere.

Sometimes we just go to the park in our neighborhood and eat our also favorite food –chicken noodles- at a little canteen by the park. It’s enjoyable, too…

We seldom go to the cinema to watch movies; we prefer to buy and watch it at home, in our bedroom. The mall that we most often visit is Botani Square; at least once in a month; to buy monthly needs at Giant hypermarket and do window shopping.

There are our favorite places in my city, Bogor, Indonesia. Visit CC to read other couple’s stories. Have a nice day, every one…

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Why You Should Visit a Dermatologist?

Most people, whether women or men, are dreaming to have smooth and healthy skin. The good news is; healthy skin isn’t always from the gene pool; you all can develop better skin. Thanks to the latest technology of dermatology; your dreams can be true faster and easily.

If you’re a resident of Los Angeles, you might have noticed that there are many options for skin treatments centre. You should choose one that trusted for safety and quality; such as Los Angeles Dermatologist Celibre that has provided the most advanced laser skincare treatment in the country.

Here are benefits that you can get if you visit a dermatologist:

1. Having healthy skin inside.
A dermatologist can diagnose and treat any major skin conditions.

2. Having smooth skin on the surface.Botox Treatment Los Angeles can reduce the forehead and eye wrinkles for months and give you a younger look.

3. Having improved self-confidence.
Laser treatment can cure and eliminate many skin problems such as unwanted tattoo, severe acnes, skin blemish and unwanted hair. Los Angeles Laser Hair Removal can undertake your unwanted hair problem with safe and quick.

If you want to have clear, smooth and healthy skin, don’t hesitate to visit trusted dermatologist frequently, since dermatologist is the best place to protect and care your skin.

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Bogor Katulampa Dam

Katulampa Dam located in Bogor, West Java, Indonesia. Built in 1911; the dam becomes so crucial in rainy season; because it controls the flood (from Ciliwung River) that comes to Jakarta (capital city of Indonesia). The dam starts its alert condition since the water level is above normal height (80 cm). If the water level continues high, it can be predicted that the flood will arrive at Jakarta in eight hours ahead. For Watery Wednesday, I share pictures of Katulampa Dam that I captured weeks ago.

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The Secrets of Happy Couples

This post is still related to the topic of Couple's Corner last week. I’ve mentioned a little about the result of a study that conducted by Terri Orbuch and her team of researches. Imagine this; they have conducted the longest-running study of marriage in North America-22 years-wow!

Again, I’ve mentioned here the result. The secrets of happy couples, that Orbuch and her team of researchers found, were amazingly simple.

"Really great marriages are not the result of long hours of hard work, but of everyday behaviors and attitudes, seemingly small gestures that show your spouse that he or she is noticed, appreciated, respected, loved and desired" Orbuch mentioned the secrets in her book: 5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great, and it’s based on the study's results.

You might want to know, what are a few secrets to make a great marriage, right? Here they are (just a brief of them):

Do small things often to make your partner feel special.Psychologists call it as affective affirmation. It includes compliments, help and support, encouragement and hand-holding - anything that tells your partner you're still paying attention. Orbuch said that what important is, husbands and wives should recognize their different ways of expressing affective affirmation.

Expect less, get more.Unrealistic expectations of men, women and relationships-in most cases- cause frustration, anger and hurt. All marriages have ups and downs, and even the happiest couples in Orbuch's study admitted that they argued.

There's no such thing as endless harmony. In fact, studies have shown that happiness in marriage begins to decline after two or three years, with the stresses of raising a family and maintaining a home together, only to increase again by Year 25, in what's called "the U-shaped curve." It isn't until after about the 35th year of marriage that happiness regains and even exceeds that of the first years.

Hold daily briefings.
Take at least 10 minutes each day to talk. Just talk. About hockey or movies or politics or what you'd do if you won the lottery. The catch is that it has to be something other than work, kids or finances.

The happiest couples were those intimately connected with each other's lives. They knew each other's routines and preferences, their inner lives and social worlds. They slowed things down to make time for each other.

Shake things up.Dullness is a real marriage-buster. Do new things together, to keep things interesting. Orbuch said that it's the best way to add passion into a relationship. Another trick for getting out of a habit is to exchange roles. If he's usually the travel planner and she's the cook, get her to book this summer's vacation and him to make Sunday dinner.

Keep costs low, benefits high.
Psychologists have developed a theory that people keep track mentally of how much emotional currency they spend in a love relationship compared with how much they earn or get back. She conveyed six behaviors that couples reported as being the most "costly" in terms of marital happiness. Among them: an unfair division of household labor, chronic arguing, jealousy or power imbalances, secretive behavior and conflicts with each other's family.

I think we, married couples, can learn a lot from this study…

Source: montrealgazette.com & google
Picture source: vintageholidaycrafts.com

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Getting Fit with Affordable Fitness Equipment

You might have already realized about the importance of exercise. Lack of exercise and poor diet can cause lots of health problems. To meet your own goals, it’s better if you acknowledge more about exercise. There are some ways for exercising; you can choose one that you most like. You can swim, walking, running and other outdoor exercises. If you prefer to work out indoor, fitness training can be a good choice.

Some people are lazy to come to gyms; they like better to have their fitness equipment at their home. When searching for a piece of fitness equipment, your budget and your needs represent the main criteria of selection. If you’re still confused on choosing the best fitness equipment for you; don’t worry, I know the best place, eFITology that offers free consultation from their consultants that also as fitness experts. Isn’t it a great service?

They offer best brand fitness equipment with low price guarantee. If you have decided to have a treadmill, you should choose a good one with careful; and

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CC: Sweet Gestures

What makes couples happy? What makes marriages last? Terri Orbuch (a research professor and a marriage-and-family therapist) and her team mentioned the secrets of happy married couples:
"Really great marriages are not the result of long hours of hard work, but of everyday behaviors and attitudes, seemingly small gestures that show your spouse that he or she is noticed, appreciated, respected, loved and desired"

So, the secret of a happy couple is the small stuffs, the small gestures that we do often such as:

• Hubby tells me that I always look beautiful.


• I bring him coffee in bed in the morning; he brings me a glass of warm water in the night.


• Every time he’s leaving home; he kisses my forehead; and I kiss his hand.


• Before going to bed, we’re forgiving each other and holding hands.


• When he’s tired, I always massage him (and vice versa).


• If we’re in the middle of a misunderstanding and one of us is pointing forward the bended little finger, the other isn’t allowed to reject the reconcilement invitation. This funny way can always break the ice; and it becomes a good start to communicate heart by heart.

Those are some of ours. Visit Couple's Corner if you want to know more stories...

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Make Your Home a Child Proof Home

Dear parents, of course, you want your home to be a safe place for your child. But have you known that accidents at home often happen to children that normally move very actively? Independent Research Institute of USA, in 2008, records that there are 15,000 accidents cases that children experienced at their own home. A house becomes the second place where accidents happen after roads and vehicles.

The cause of accident at home is arranging and choosing furniture and room design that less pay attention to child safety factor. Whereas, children move and play everywhere, so that they are in high risk to get an accident, like struck down by television, stick in cables, get a shock from electricity, or bump into sharp and pointed angles of furniture. Don’t worry, with a little care, many incidents can be prevented.

First, you should increase your knowledge on how to baby proof your home by reading child safety tips. And then you can decide what proper baby proofing products that you need to apply at home. Finding baby proofing products can be so difficult if you don’t know KidSafe.

With KidSafe, you’ll get what you need because they offer a wide variety of the highest quality child safety products (more than thirty categories). For my home (once I’ve my baby), I really need to install Baby Gates and Child Safety Locks. If you’re looking for other products, they also have Corner Cushions, Outlet Covers, TV Guards, Door Locks, Appliance Locks, Window Guards and much more.

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