Couple’s Corner : When Simple Sorry is not Enough
>> Aug 25, 2010
Sorry Seems To Be the Hardest Word
Lyrics: Bernie Taupin
Lyrics: Bernie Taupin
Piano and vocals: Elton John
What have I got to do to make you love me
What have I got to do to make you care
What do I do when lightning strikes me
And I wake to find that you're not there
What do I do to make you want me
What do I do to make you want me
What have I got to do to be heard
What do I say when it's all over
And sorry seems to be the hardest word
It's sad, so sad
It's sad, so sad
It's a sad, sad situation
And it's getting more and more absurd
It's sad, so sad
Why can't we talk it over
Oh it seems to me
That sorry seems to be the hardest word
What do I do to make you love me
What have I got to do to be heard
What do I do when lightning strikes me
What have I got to do
What have I got to do
When sorry seems to be the hardest word
Why I sometimes feel hard to say “I’m sorry”, though I know that I’ve done mistakes? Sometimes, my pride- makes me reluctant to say it. Or I’m still in deep angry; and it needs times for me to cool down my emotion. After I’m feeling better with my emotion, I’m usually nearing my hubby and say that five words.
But sometimes, it isn’t hard at all. I can say it easily. I can say “I’m sorry” straightly after I realize that I’ve made a mistake. Sigh, I still have to learn to control my emotions!
As a married couple, saying “I’m Sorry” is very important. But of course; it should be a meaningful one and state it with sincerity. Saying ‘sorry’ but not intending to improve our actions will cause a lack of trust. Saying “I’m sorry” and admitting that we did something wrong is the first step to self-improvement. It can also break the ice and the way to reconcile is wide open.
Unfortunately, in this case, my hubby has the similar behavior. Sometimes, when he realizes that his mistake has made me angry, he straightly says how sorry he is and usually he does funny acts to make me laugh. But sometimes, he can be so stubborn and it needs long time for him to say it! There’s no doubt, we still have to learn to fix this.
9 komentar:
hhahaha....I can see myself in you Lina...we both have similarities....and our husbands too....lol! thanks for sharing...great to be here!
Somehow I love that song. :-)
sometimes because of our ego, its very difficult to say sorry to other people, even though we know that we are in the wrong..
halu dear...weee nandito na naman ako:) ahehehh! trying to get back:) good day!
It's indeed hard to say sorry sometimes, but if it's our fault, we have to own up to what ever we did. We are responsible on our own actions. Hubby and Wifey need to learn how to apologize to each other for a better and long lasting relationship, but the sorry needs to be meant to not do it again..
as long as that's my mistake..i love to say sorry..
aku baru tau ni mbak lagu ini
melo ya?
'sorry' and 'thank you' are important words that can influence a relationship success or not.
I find it hard to say Sorry sometimes. It just takes time for me to say it.
Sorry is hard to say, but sometime, a sorry will make up an argument. I will say sorry whenever i do something wrong.
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