Romance in a Marriage Life
>> Jan 25, 2010
How’s your relationship with your husband/wife? Is romantic things expressed by kisses, touches and hugs still there?Romantic love usually only happened at the time of couple are interested each other. Both feeling cannot live without its couple and always wish to be together. This kind of love will end after a few moments. Entering marriage life, romantic love usually will fade. The fading romantic love can result the value friction, your couple become part that is felt no longer need special attention.
This value friction usually happens since 5-10 years of marriage. Even wife position at home can shift into the part of household appliances that must be there at home to arrange daily life.
Actually married couple needn't maintain this romantic love, but you must avoid the loss of meaning of wife/husband attendance as individual that requiring love and attention truly happen. It can be source of physically illness; because the wife and husband can feel depressed, lonely, and sadness.
Why wives are more often become victims of less romance in their marriage lifes? Women usually spend more time at home, while husbands have association and career outside, so that they don’t irritate much with separate relationship with wives. Husbands also sometimes unconscious with this problem, because they feel that they have already worked to make a living for family. They feel their responsibilities as husbands have fulfilled with giving enough material things to their family.
I myself don’t want this situation really happens to me. I don’t want my husband neglects and only assumes me as a complement of household appliances. Like wise, you shouldn’t assume your husband only as a money searcher machine.
In order to avoid these situation happen, romance in certain rate has to be maintained in building harmony of a marriage. Romance here is interpreted as an effort to maintain caring and sensitivity to individual aspect of each couple.
Husband and wife should realize that each couple has basic human need to be loved and to get attention. Only material needs aren’t enough. The complete human need the attendance beside his/her couple is affected and appreciated; she/he isn’t only a wage earner, a house keeper or a house complement.
Brighten your marriage with warm and full of affection relationship. Fill your marriage life daily with smiles, laughs, eyes sights, kisses, touches, hugs and attention. Have a happy marriage life, everyone…
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30 comments:
yes i dnt like married couple taking granted eacg other's presence. i see them in restos, one reads the paper and one text in her cellphone and they dont talk. i hate this set up. this is helpful to them if they can read this
yah..namanya juga menyatukan dua mahluk yang berbeda. gitu deh jadinya :)
Great post and information.
Have a nice day!
Nice posting Lin...
Keromantisan hubungan suami istri emang penting banget untuk menjaga keharmonisan rumah tangga. Namun itu tak mudah dilakukan, apalagi bagi pasangan yang sudah lama banget menikah, sama2 bekerja dan punya anak. Sampai dirumah capek dan masih harus mengurusi anak2, jadi moment untuk berduaan bersama pasangan juga jarang terjadi. Namun sejauh ini masing2 dari kami masih selalu saling memperhatikan, masih sangat saling menyayangi dan mencintai.. semoga hal ini bisa lebih baik lagi..
great post! Love is all!
Married couples need refreshing with each other. Boredom and cheat will just stay away as romance keeps our love alive...
Married couples need refreshing with each other. Boredom and cheat will just stay away as romance keeps our love alive...
walaupun usia perkawinan sudah bisa dinilai senja, sangat diharapkan agar suasana romantis tetep dijaga iia bun :)
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terkadang kesibukan di luar rumah adalah salah satu penyebabnya. Ucapan sayang ... dan saling mengingat akan hut pasangannya bisa menimbulkan ke-romantis-an tersendiri.
mm.., thanks for share the advice..
^_^
Thank's for your information my friend.....
I like it....
benul eh betul mbak, menjaga keromantisan disaat udah lama menikah lebih sulit dibandingkan ketika masih awal2 menikah *kayak yg tau aja* hehehehe ini dari pengamatan mia aja hehehehe smoga ntar bisa menjaga keromantisan saat udah bertahun2 menikah nanti. Amiiien fufufufufu jadi malu :p
a romantic mood its very important thing for husband and wife in order to keep their relations still harmonic and full of love
kalau ngomong soal romantis justru terjadi pada masa2 pdkt atau pacaran.
tetapi setelah memasuki kehidupan rmh tangga terkadang dan sering keromantisan itu akan terkikis dgn berjalannya waktu.itu opini aku lho tdk mewakili semuanya.boleh setuju boleh tdk .
There is good communication between husband and wife are required
so the function can be maintained.
there is good communication between husband and wife are required
so the function can be maintained.
The native will be very determined to have good and healthy sex with the partner. He / She will be courageous and considerate in sex matter but fails to demonstrate.
Memang sulit menjaga keromantisan,tapi bagi saya itu tantangan
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Istri gw romantis banget ... haha.
Ai beruntung punya istri dia.
saya sendiri pernah mengalami sulit memang tapi harus bgaimana lakukan yang terbaik.
Really good one!!, nice piece of information, I really like it.
That's the hardest thing - to keep romance up.
We should realize that this is a job) Indeed.
If you have romance in your life and what's the most important support it, then you'll be fine adn your relationships as well.
you put the all great things which makes all people getting interested. but yes thats right, i agree. all you mention is make a sense. thanks
salam kenal mbak...
baru mampir nehh
good information that's very help me thanks.....
nice post
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