How to Avoid Yelling at Child
>> Jul 10, 2014
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When a child acting up, and you are not patient enough to deal with, it
most likely that you will response by yelling angrily. How to restrain angry? Often
snapping at a child may give bad effect on the development of child’s attitude.
He could imitate you and will often yell either to you or people around him. You
certainly do not want kids to be so. For that, you should avoid shouting though you're so angry at him.
There are several ways that you can do to warn the child without having to yell and scream:
There are several ways that you can do to warn the child without having to yell and scream:
1.Teach your child to well behave
If the child starts acting up, position yourself as high
as your child then you see his eyes. Talk to your child if his manner is not good
and should be corrected. Teach how he should behave. This method is more
striking in children than you shout to warn him.
2.Give effective punishment.
If above way is not successful and even the child throwing a tantrum, inevitably
you have to give him punishment. Ask him to sit in the corner of the penalty for
a few minutes, until the emotions of you and him go down. Then just talk nice to
him, don’t forget to express your affection for him.
3.Give warning.
Emphasize to three times what he should do. Research shows a person would take
seriously a warning if submitted at least three times. Ask also the reason why he
changed, so you can figure out the cause. Your child will feel valued and his
opinion is listened.
3 komentar:
nice said...
It's hard to discipline children.
jamannya sekarang emang beda dg kita kecil dulu ya mbak... terutama buat anak anak... pendekatan,contoh nyata dan komunikasi yang indah membuat mereka merasa punya posisi dan dianggap bagiab penting dari sebuah anggota keluarga
terima kasih buat infonya mbak Lin :)
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