Do couples have the ability to read each other mind? I don’t know for sure about this before. Because of my curiosity, I browsed to find more information.
Daniel Siegel, a psychiatrist from UCLA, assumed that a mind reading ability as an ability to make a perception of other’s mind by interpreting the given clues (consciously or not). He named it mindsight, or an ability of brain to make a map of other’s mental condition. William Ickes from University of Texas gave the other concept; he mentioned it as Empathic Accuracy, an ability to feel precisely what other feels.
Every one actually has this ability, include children. It isn’t easy to read other’s mind. The accuracy rate of mind reading between best friends or couples is about only 35%, but they said that the ability can be trained more.
How is the process of mind reading? There are two approaches that complement each other: the help of our five senses and human ability to catch the emotional frequency of a person nearby.
Though the studies said that the accuracy rate of mind reading between couples is only about 35 %, I realize that I truly experienced it. As a couple, of course, we have a close relationship and a strong emotional bond. Having known well my hubby’s characters, personalities and preferences, when we face any situation, I sometimes can guess correctly what his reaction will be, what he’s thinking about and what he’s going to say. It happens vice versa.
But still he can’t read my mind and I also can’t read his completely. That’s why misunderstandings still happen in our relationship. That’s why we apply open communication. If we can read mind one another accurately, we can seldom talk, hehehe…
But I believe that the same frequency of our emotion (or whatever else) connects us. This situation happens to us often: He’s outside (at his workplace or other place), and suddenly I’m thinking about him. Commonly, a few minute later, he calls me and says, “Hay, what’s up? I suddenly remember you…”
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nice to know about this. happy new year lina!
while still in a relationship my boyfriend always told me that he's not a shaman. he can not read my mind. seems indeed the man was difficult to understand what is available and desired by a woman, not like the opposite. the solution is to open minded, share with one another
Interesting article...Happy new year!
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Menarik banget artikelnya Lin.. aku sering banget dengar istilah mindsight, tapi belum benar2 paham apa artinya, ternyata kemampuan untuk mambaca pikiran orang lain yah..
Kalau dalam hub suami istri kepekaan satu sama lain atas apa yang dipikirkan pasangan tentulah lebih tajam daripada orang lain. Mungkin hal ini dikarenakan, pasangan kita adalah bagian dari hidup kita, jiwa kita.. seperti halnya istri adalah tulang rusuk suami yang hilang.. (tapi ini cuman presepsiku aja lho..)
wah manteppp deh..cieeppp
this article remind me about my past memory, for me; this thing required a close, honest, and good communication of relationship.
anyway, what if we xchange link ? i really interested on your articles..
gagal pertamaxxxxx,.,. hiks,. hiks,.,. happy new year ya,. sorry telat, bru berkunjung nih,. hehe,.
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artikel yang menarik .....
khususnya bagi yang udha bekeluarga ...
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quite interesting..like a sixth sense!
thanks for sharing.
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HI LIna, this article is very interesting. thanks for sharing. I guess, I can't really read my hubby's mind, but because we've been together for a long period of time, I can guess what he feels in a certain time of day and vice versa. But, it does a lot that we kind of know what the other thinks,it's the closeness and the familiarity I guess. It's "we think alike" also one of the factors.
Thanks for joining and I hope you had a great New Year.
pasangan yang sudah mempunyai hubungan batin yang kuat biasanya akan langsung bisa mengetahui apa yang sedang dilakukan pasanganya dan bagaimana parasaannya.
Interesting! I always amazed of how human mind works. But, I believe that somehow we can know other people thoughts even when they say nothing verbally. Human is wonderful because The Creator is wonderful too :)
Anyway, about the dot com domain, I bought mine from Yahoo Small Business, sis. I got help from an expert friend (lol). He helped me to complete all stages in just two hours. And my new domain has been activated in an hour later.
But, I think you should think again and again before changing your PR4 blog into dot com, sis. You will lose your PR into N/A and your Alexa Rank into No Data Available and start everything all over again (just like I do). I was sad enough when I lost my PR2 (lol. But it's all up to you :)
You can also try using Yahoo Small Business but you must pay them with dollar..
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Wow nice Article...,
read people's minds for some people is difficult, but for some it was easy. in fact it is how the individual can understand an object. impossible for someone to understand a person's mind, if he does not understand. before it reached the stage of reading someone's mind, we should first understand the characteristics of a person.
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masa sih mba??! aduh hati2 mba, bisa2 itu penipuan...emang mba dapet rekomendasi dari sipaa sih pake layanan di sana?
Gini aja mba, coba mba kirim email ato pesan di YM, bila mereka tetep gak ada itikad baik, mba akan posting ttg pelayanan buruk jasa mereka...!!
Bila mereka sama sekali ga ada tanda2 itikad baik, y udah, mba nulis post keluahan aja..Insya Allah sy bersedia nulis jg..asal minta kronolgisnya yg bener aja...Jangan takut mba!! Ini hak konsumen. Ada dasar hukumnya kok. Ibu PRita aja bebas kan??hehehe
happy new year mbaknya...
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mantavvvv,.,. lanjutkan
emang sih mbak, anak2 biasanya yg tgkt sensitif mind readingnya dr pada org dewasa. Tapi kl org dewasa biasanya pasangan yg sering tepat 'ngebaca' pikiran psgnnya. krn dah sehati kali yaaaa
Kebersamaan dengan pasangan dalam waktu relatif lama, tentu saja sedikit banyak kita tahu jalan berpikir pasangan kita.
an interesting article
thanks
mantap, very exiciting article mbak... salam hangat selalu
he always can guess something in my mind. and most of them were true.
wokee bgt deh,.. emang beuneur lho klo pasutri biasanya perasaannya 'nyetrum'.. heu.heu.. arus listrik kaliii.. ;)
thx infonya..numpang baca baca bentar
Hmm, we may not be able to read our better half's mind. But I strongly believe that we can feel them :)
another interesting post u have here...Can You Read My Mind? my answer is depend my mood....he he he he....
anyway you have very interesting post here, i can learn much on ur blog here.....maybe i can ask my wife for being your student
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nice visiting your blog friend,your info is nice
thanks friend,your posting is very nice
Nice article mbak...
Klo saja manusia bisa membaca pikiran, bisa jadi dukun deh, hehe...
Tp emang benar kok, dengan kedekatan dan penyatuan perasaan, kadang kita bisa membaca pikiran teman dekat kita (istri). Bahkan di banyak kasus, ibu biasanya lebih bisa membaca pikiran anak-anaknya. Mungkin karena ibulah yg paling dekat dengan mereka
hi Lina! sorry i havent visited you in a while..
happy new year to you and to your family!!!!
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nice post...good luck 4 u
it's true lin, we really can't read our husband's mind fully but the connection is there...
Glad to know that your computer is alright now... I am back to normal schedule too so I would be here everyday again...
Thanks for the visit lin!
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